Today is day 10 of my #write28days series of Homeschooling Helps, Hints, and Resources. Today I want to speak on a topic that is all too obvious in our home. The fact is our children are only young once. We only get to have them for a certain number of years before they grow up, move out and create lives of their own. When we first began homeschooling our oldest was ten and our youngest was not quite four yet. Now our oldest will turn twenty-three in June and our youngest is sixteen.
I have to wonder where the time has gone and how it has flown by. I have some regrets about how we spent our time. But in other ways, I have no regrets. I regret in some ways that we took the path of active duty military. Because this means our youngest two do not have as many tangible memories of my husband’s parent, their aunts, and uncles as well as their cousins. But in other ways, I have no regrets we took this path because some of their experiences could never have been duplicated anywhere else. For example, I think our children truly enjoyed our many visits to Busch Gardens where we stayed in the cabins at Fort Eustis.
There is the time we drove from Pennsylvania to their grandparents’ home in eastern North Carolina along with three of their friends from central Pennsylvania. The three girls saw the ocean for the very first time.
Of course, now we are in Texas and my four children are all either playing a band instrument or a string instrument along with their father and myself.
So my point is to enjoy your children and let your children enjoy growing up. Do not get so caught up in looking to the future that you lose sight of the present. Be present with them as well. Take time to do things together as a family so you have memories for the future. Because before you know it you go from there:
And there is no way to go back and recapture those moments ever again. Enjoy your children today. Love your children today. Most importantly, remember God only gave us those children for a season where they truly need us.